So, I have all these fabulous idea’s for a Christmas card that I want to do with the girls to send out to our friends and family. I dream up all kinds of stuff. Then realize I’d be better off to just try to get a good picture of them. Telling myself the whole time that it may not go as planned (hence the reason to forget most of the fabulous idea’s) and to stay calm and not get my hopes up, and definitely not make a big deal of it.
You see, I have a slight problem executing photo shoots when it comes to my own girls. I dream of a great shoot including all the cool stuff I want. I don’t want them posey, or un-natural at all. I don’t feel like I am asking too much…I just want them together, looking happy, in whatever set-up I decide on. I want it to be fun and cute. But, it just doesn’t seem to be that simple.
Yes, they are 1 and three, not easy ages to shoot together. But, I manage to do it for other people.
So, with a good, positive attitude, and no high hopes. We set off for Take One.
Kennedy was all cheesy and ready.

Bristol was in no mood for it at all. She plopped down and had this ‘don’t bother me look’ on her face…

And it just got worse from there….

So we gave it up and tried again another day. It didn’t go much better. A lot of crying and not wanting to change clothes went on. Basically not wanting to do anything I suggested while getting ready, for that matter. I was over it before it even began. But, determined to get a good picture, I put a smile on my face, packed my Shootsac with Candy Canes and smarties and told my husband (who was thankfully here this time), to deal with Kennedy because I just needed her happy. We talked it up, told them how much fun it was going to be. Blah, blah, blah.
We ran out right before the rain hit and snapped as many as we could. The next day while going through the pictures, I was totally disappointed. My Mom happened to stop by and I showed them to her asking if I should even waste my money on a card this year. She laughed as she looked at the ‘better’ ones and said “Barbara, honey this is real life. You just have to go with it!” And so I did. I used these next four pictures and called it our Christmas card

The finished card looked like this:

So, Merry Christmas from our family to yours!
Hopefully they will one day outgrow this phase of refusing to co-operate with me on shoots…Meanwhile I’ll just enjoy my candids that I capture of them. Which I love, by the way. Here are a few of Bristol I shot recently…








Kennedy jumped in that last picture there. And while technically there is nothing right about it, I love it just the same

Have a wonderful weekend